okay i have been with my bf for 3 years. i have also lived with an alcoholic for 17 years. i have been through so much that it would take forever to tell about how bad it was at my house. when i lived with my mother i would never get any sleep and no privacy to do anything such as go to the bathroom, take a shower, or do homework. my mother is such a crazy person she never left me alone cause she was always drunk. well, i moved out into my boyfriends house. my mother always told me to go and also said ''do what u want'' i have been here a month. i have never been happier. but my boyfriend has a sister and his parents are divorced. we live with his mom. when his dad found out that i lived here, he wants to get custody of the kids and he knows is kids dont want to live with him. his mom has done nothing wrong, and my bf is 16. do u think that the stupid father could get custody? what if i moved out?i have a job if that helps. i was so unhappy at my moms and never wanted to stay home HELPCould she get her kids taken away?
I doubt it. He would have to have a good legit reason why the mother is unfit to raise the kids.Could she get her kids taken away?
Yeah that is kind of strange all of the sudden he wants custody of the kids, and he knows that the kids don't want to live with him, as soon as you moved in with your b/f mom's house. He has to go to court first and present to the judge why he wants full custody of his kids, and the reasons behind that.
The most he may get is full custody, the least he will get is joint custody, or no custody. If he wants to see his kids he has to prove that he is mentally, emotionally and financially stable to raise a child.
Maybe the CPS will become involved, but they only come if there are serious issues surrounding the present family situation. Like if there is alcohol, drugs, violence and abuse. Sounds like you are a good person, wanting to do better for yourself.
Personally, I wouldn't get involved. These are their kids. Your b/f mom and dad are both grown adults, they have to deal with this issue. They would have to get a family Lawyer and sort this out. That would be the first thing to do. Call a Family Lawyer. I did. Your b/f mom should do that right away if he is threatening that he is taking the kids away....like PRONTO. I would tell her to get a restraining order if he is threatening that, to go to the police and explain the situation...this is serious.
Ever seen Amber Alerts? The non-custodial Parent taking children away from the custodial parent. My ex used to threaten that he would take my son away from me in my sleep. YOU know how stressed I was...Super stressed. I am glad he has no custody of our child and that I have a restraining order against him....
she should be cool it worked on roseanne so i don't see any troube
Nothing glaring that says that she should lose her kids....
Taking in a friend of one of her kids... and then providing adequate support and supervision... and a better example of how to act than your own mother did...
just sounds like she's a good person to me.
Judges usually take into consideration the wishes of the children, particularly if they are teenagers. In fact, in some states the children have their own lawyer. Your bf's father may get himself into a very spendy litigation that could not end up being resolved until after your boyfreind is of legal age.
No, he cannot get custody. He'd have to have alot more than that. That doesn't prove his mother unfit because she is housing her sons girlfriend. For all he knows anyway, you had nowhere to go. I think he's just starting some crap and even he knows it won't get him anywhere
The simple answer is, YES he can get custody. Each party to a divorce (in theory) has an equal right to custody of the minor children.
That being said, once custody has been awarded, the court requires a 'significant change in circumstance' to overturn a previous ruling.
This is NOT a matter of finding the mother unfit. This is a simple matter of him proving to the court that a change in circumstances since the award of custody has occurred which would place him in a better position than the mother to parent the child.
It would also help to know in what state this is occurring. GEORGIA is the ONLY state which gives a child of 14 the legal right to decide with which parent they will live. Most other states allow the court to exercise discretion as to when or if they will listen to a child's opinion in the matter.
I don't think that the father will get custody. It's just him being a jerk.
I wouldn't worry about it.
His mother is obviously responsible and makes you guys sleep in different rooms. and I think at this point if the mom is not doing anything wrong. That is would boil down to who the kids want to stay with.
If you are sleeping in another room other then your bf then she is only helping out a young girl in need if you are sleeping in your bf room she could get in trouble because you are under age depending on the age of consent in your country if you are having sex so move into another room and you should be fine and don't have sex .good luck....................................鈥?on if you a your in your own room he can't do anything it just treats
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Yes, possibly... sounds like this father wanted a fight anyway though. You may want to consider moving out. I mean if your mom wanted you and allowed you to go why did she not just emancipate you and make you your own guardian then you could seek other types of assistance to make it on you own.
he can not get custody, just for you living there he is just trying to scare everyone!
There is no legal justification for the father to get custody. The most he'll get is shared custody but the mother can't get her kids taken away from her unless they are in immediate danger. And any social worker would agree that you are better off living at your boyfriends. They would probably prefer you live at a relatives house but i think you're old enough to be responsible for yourself ^_^
He would have to prove her an unfit mother, which it appears, she is not.
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