How to ruin someones life ?

my ';father';, if you will, has been in and out of jail for the past 20 years, meth addict, alcoholic, etc. ive lived with my grandparents since i was 2, i havent seen my mom since i was 6, but i talk to her occassionally. my ';father'; has so many issues its almost ridiculous. he's living with us until he finds a job and moves out. good luck when you have a record like his. he cant even get into trucking school. he has this mentality that he's the best, he's never wrong, he's a good person, and basically that he's just perfect. i dont know how to further explain this. it would take too long for anyone to understand what i live with. he's constantly bringing everyone down, he's violent, and has horrible anger management issues. my grandparents pay for his gas, yadda yadda, they're good people, they dont want to see anyone suffer, so they basically let him walk all over everyone. im sorry, that doesnt fly with me. if i have to key his car, you bet there will be a fat scratch on the drivers side door tomorrow morning. i just need some ideas, i cant get a restraining order because he lives with us. im absolutely helpless. revenge ! i need ideas !How to ruin someones life ?
It may sound corny, but it is so true that the best kind of revenge to your father would be is to be the most successful happy person that you can be. Think of yourself and not him even though that is going to be hard. If you make your own life good, you can get away from him and never see him again. Don't ever bring yourself to stoop to his level that will only bring more trouble to the family.





Your grandparents are enablers even though they think they are doing the right thing by helping him. Do your best to prepare for a better life in the future, but never allow your father to hurt you or your grandparents. Call the cops on him if he becomes violent. He can get it out of his system in jail where they can handle him. If you are lucky, maybe they will keep him there or put him in prison for awhile which would be better for all of you.How to ruin someones life ?
Go to college. It will burn inside his mind because he will know that you are better than him. Remember that he is a grown man still living with his parents. Whats funny though, he'll probably say hes proud of you, but being a loser will always echo at the core =)
Can you move away? Get your own place? That would be the best and easiest thing. You can't change him and revenge isn't going to make you feel better in the long run.
Dont do mean stuff to him 2 its gonna make EVERYthingg worse..








I gess ';just be the bigger person'; went down the drain huh?
Although your father may be a complete failure at life, it sounds like everyone around him (with the exception of you) is trying to help him. Imagine what your family thinks of you acting so childish towards your father. I'm sure that since your grandparents are such nice people that they raised you with more values than what you are displaying. Frustration is a funny thing, but you can't let it run your life. You have made it quite apparent that you need to make a change in your own life, not your fathers.