The question will be on smoking heres a little information?

first we have been married twenty five years three children still at home. I used to smoke twenty years ago and i have a five point one anyrsymn on my aorta on the heart caused from smoking as i am told. I get it checked every six months. My husband is a heavy smyoker he has health problems and is over weight and will not quit smoking now he thinks he can smoke in the bathroom and it goes through the whole house. he supposed to smoke out side only. I lost it on him and told him how i really feel I told him if he got cancer are a disease i will resent and hate him for the rest of my life and I find it hard to even be around him he makes me sick. what do i do is this like living with a alcoholicThe question will be on smoking heres a little information?
im a smoker, smoked for 20yrs and i still enjoy my only treat even if it harms me, some people just wanna smoke, you have a choice either put up or shut up really, i couldn't be with some one if hey hated me smoking sorry im with your husbandThe question will be on smoking heres a little information?
you do the same thing that you would do if he was an alcoholic. you realize there is nothing that you can do and decide for your self you really need to be there with him or not. you have to realize that he may never change and sense you have health problems you may need to leave so you can get healthier. plus you leaving may jar him enough to mabe get healthier too.
No, it's not like living with an alcoholic because if it were, he'd slap you for talking to him the way you do. Burn a candle to dissipate the smell and smoke because after this much time, he's not going outside! Do what you have to to protect your own lungs!!! Clearly he's being selfish...maybe he has a death wish.
So if your husband got cancer, you'd hate him? Hmm, interesting. Hate a guy who could be dying. Lovely.


As for comparing to an alcoholic. Not even close. Alcoholics, have serious mood swings. Some get real pissed when they drink, some get all teary eyed, and some think they are really funny. Then you have the stupid ones who think they can drive, and end up killing people when get behind a wheel. So far I've never heard of anyone killing someone driving while smoking.
Twenty five yrs. ago you were also a smoker and you married him for better or for worse, in sickness and in health. You chose to quit smoking, he didn't...lay off the man. If you can't deal with it, take a hike.
lady they can say what they want, but no one can prove that smoking causes anything, thats the reason they say (may ) cause and not , it does cause, yurn on an exhaust fan or open a window
He should respect your wishes. This is a health matter. (I am a smoker)
I have had 2 massive heart attacks...one at age 36 one at age 44. The root cause of both were caused by my use of tobacco.


I have no real advice, I have no sage wisdom...you cannot force a smoker to quit if the don't want to. I didn't quit until my second heart attack and I think the only reason I truly quit was because my spouse would leave if I didn't. I know that sounds unbelievable and I am ashamed to say it is the truth.





The second hand smoke is not good for you, not to mention it stinks to high heaven. Lay the facts on the table...if he won't quit he should at least have enough respect for you to not expose you to potentially harmful second hand smoke and he should keep the nasty stench outdoors.
Well yeah bc it's utter recklessness and he doesn't give a fuckolla as to what the end damage will be.





Fact is lady, you've been though life but your still tooo young to die..tell him to get off his ***, put on a f'en jacket and go smoke outside..unless he wants to kill you..





Don't use the argument ';if i get cancer';





SAY it for what it is MY HEART is bad motherfer...and the damage is done but your not going to make it worse!.