The other day I was texting this guy that likes me (we're not going out because I wanted to get to know him more), when randomly he asked me if I drank. I said no, and asked why. He said he and one of his friends were planning to ';pregame'; before my friend's sweet 16 on saturday. He said he asked me because if he made a move on me he wouldn't want for me to think he did it because he was wasted, %26amp; was asking me if I would rather have him sober or buzzed. I said it probably wasn't a good idea to get plastered because I would feel terrible for my friend if they messed up her party. He was then all like ';if i do it I'll limit myself so I can remember the night with you';.
What should I do about this? I don't want him to ruin my friend's party (she's not into that stuff), and I don't know if I feel like hanging out with a guy wasted out of his mind while he's ';trying to make a move on me';. I don't even know how I feel about him. Plus, I don't like people when they're drunk. I live with an alcoholic at home. What do I do? Bt we're sophs.Teenage drinking, boys, and partying?? NEED help?
Apparently he either has low self esteem, he has to get buzzed to make a move on you, or he wants to be buzzed so if something happens and you get mad he can blame it on the alcohol, and take no responsibility himself. If i were you i would be very leery about this guy, he is an alcoholic in the making needing ( excuse my language) balls in a bottle to talk to you. move on find a self confident boy that will respect your feelings.Teenage drinking, boys, and partying?? NEED help?
You need to tell your teachers and Police about the Teenage drinking that would take place so they stop them before it starts, what is fair is fair.
tell him you dont want him to drink that night and you wont hang out with him that night if he is.
tell him to stay sober or not bother coming. You dont want a guy like that.
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