This is so strange?

i was on here about a week ago and started chatting with a lady. it turned out we had a few things in common. mostly both being alcoholics. we live very far apart. but i have a serious crush on her. i doubt if she is interested in me at all. i know i am being very foolish but i cant help it. i just think about her constantly. i know i need to be real about this and forget about her as a true lover since it is just an internet friendship. i know we will never be together. but i am really stuck. i dont understand why or how i ever became so attracted to a total stranger. it is just so weird. i really feel like i love her but i dont even know her. and i write to her just wanting to be friends but i think she knows i want to be alot closer even though i know it will never happen. am i just weird to feel like this?This is so strange?
well thats sweet of you doll, maybe someday we will meet and you will hate me ,i will drink you under the table silly boyThis is so strange?
it could happen doll

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I kinda know how you feel. I talked to a boy that i had never seen in person(ever) for about 6 months(he lived across the country).


i fell in ';love';, but u shouldnt get caught up because it probably won't work out
At least you are being realistic since you have never met, and live so far apart.





But I will say this to aid you in the future or possibly in repairing this contact.


When you ';doubt if she is interested in me at all.'; as stated above, if you are trying to find out DON'T CONVEY THIS IN YOUR MESSAGES TO HER!





You message here suggests confusion and self doubt. It also says desperation.





I would just play it cool and prey that you have not chased her off with any negitivity. Don't worry about the situation if it was meant to be then it will happen.
i never felt that way, maybe u two are meant to be with each other. take an adventure, go find her in person. u might become clearer once u see her.
It is not weird, but it is a fantasy.It is nice to be able to communicate with someone and we need that in our raltionships. But you only know what she tells you,what you want to hear. Be very careful with your heart.
No. I have a similar life like u friend. i have girl right now, who lives in Virigina and i live in New York. See how wied that is. And we still love each other. We talk to each other by phone oherwise we chat. We meet each other about 3 to 4 times a year. Maybe less. And we still love each other and we feeling for each other. So u Should go ahead and tell her. You never know that she may love you to and she may have the feeling for u too. And you never know that you may get married in the furture. If you do, Don't forget to invite me. Just joking. Just tell her how u feel about her and how much you love her. Trust me something will work. Me relationshio is going for about a year from next month. If you need help just email me at auqheebm40@yahoo.com. Remerber uyou are not wierd. Go for it. Best of Luck.





Your very Welcome.
By the context of your writing, I'd think that you're feeling classic Hans Christian Anderrssen pupply love for your fellow former lush.





Just tell what you wrote here and don't type not using capital letters. If you do that, she'll realize that she has you wrapped around her ankles and she'll be able to utilize you as she fits.





Even if she loves you and you love her, it's better not to put her in that kind of position.
so you like her because she's an alcoholic too?.. okey dokey good luck with that
No,it's freaking HORMONES.
Nah, you're not weird.





You're just having a serious crush, obsessed and can't stop thinking about a total stranger that might be half globe away for being an alcoholic. You know it will never work but you still decide that you're stuck with her anyway.





How can you be weird?
no!! just tell her and if she dosn't like you shes not the kind of pearson for u!! ok? just tell the truth.if she sas no then u can still be friends!! its no big ok? im rara and i like to answer queistions about friends because i don'thave many but i have one thats very special to me! so just tell her!! het it out! ull feel much better!
no. things happen in the strangest ways
No...you found a connection on here. Someone to share commonalities with. Be honest and sincere about your intentions...see what she says. If you both decide to pursue a relationship....go for it. If she declines, be graceful...and decide to be friends if you can. Good luck!!