Living with an alcoholic/druggie mother?

see, i live with my granparents %26amp; mom. it mygrandparents house. we live w/ them bcus my mom is/was a recovering drug addict %26amp; alcholic. well. u see she just got out of womans treatment early nov. and goes to meeting all the time. shes already 31, im 14 (she had me young). but ive been going thru the whole ';shes sober..than she uses'; prob. %26amp; its been goin on since i was lil. shes been getting help but my grandparents bought her a car, which was awesome finally but i was supposed to go to a recovry meeting w. her tonight but i think she went out and relapsed again. with her work buddies tho. she said she didnt want to be around them cus they always talk bout drugs and how its been getting to her. but she went w/ some somewhere tonight. im sick of this! and idk wat to do anymore i tell her how i feel but its usless. she said she went to a meeting but idont believeher cus she left her cell on but u cant have them on in meetings. now she turned it off.%26amp; she just got 3 month sober. help?


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i dont kno how she can do this to me, and i miss her. im worried 4 her, and i dont want to live if its going to always be like this!!


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also, when i saidshe left her phone on, i meant it rang forever ( i called 7 times) %26amp; she never answered.Living with an alcoholic/druggie mother?
Look up alatenn and alanon in the phonebook. Take in a meeting. They are free.Living with an alcoholic/druggie mother?
I'm sorry you are going thru that. It's difficult enough for a young one growing up in the world today, but add an alcoholic/addict parent to the mix, and it seems hopeless.





Let your mother know you love her, but you don't like what she is doing, and you wish she would stay away from you and your grandparents as long as she continues to use. Your grandparents really need to back you up on this. It's called tough love. Sometimes it actually works. After you let her know how you feel, all you can do is pray.
Im sorry to hear your mom cant grow up..Especailly having a vey nice caring daughter like yourself...I wish i can tell you that things will get better but the sad truth is sometimes they dont..Your mom has already tried to seek help and has failed at doing so..My advise to you is to try to talk to her tell her you dont wanna see her like this and if she can try to change for you..If that doesnt work all i can say my dear is move on with your life, you still have your grandparents who are their for you! Sometimes you have to just let go cause there is only so much you can do ...The rest is up to her, She has to be willing to help herself..Do not let her become a burden in your life..