My name is Shecklin Scott and I drink alot causing destruction everywhere I go. I have the most beautiful sweetest girlfriend Marissa who allows me to stay in the apartment with her that her parents pay for while she is in college studying theatre arts. Her parents dont know that im staying there because they dont aprove of mebeing with after a few misunderstandings that happened in their presence. well at my girlfriend's 19th b-day I got wasted destroying a $300 bracelet they brought for her out of anger and childishness just because I felt jealous of how much her family seems so together and her being totally happy sometimes tick me off. its Like because she does have everything going for her and I dont I get upset with her wanting to ruin her day just because I like to see her upset because it shows how loyal she is to me that she sticks around to care which alot of people dont, seeing her upset to satisfy me makes me happy to see her cry . In her family she is like the spoiled beautiful 1 and everytime I see her get her way I find away to crush her spirit to the point where she is crying and apologizing to me for nothing she's in love because she is a strong girl but she breaks her rules for me and become vulnurable. I never treated her like this until I started drinking and got kicked out of my parents house and now living with her I feel like im making her miserable. I sometimes push the limits with making her cry by teasing her about being a spoiled rich perfect ***** easily trying to find flaws on this perfectly hot chick. what is wrong with me ?Im an 18 year old alcoholic living with my girlfriend in her apartment and I am destroying her life?
You're not only an alcoholic, you're a worthless asshole, but if she's stupid enough to allow worthless trash like you into her life, then I suppose she deserves it to some degree. But, if she was my sister, I would kick your F****** worthless a** into oblivion.Im an 18 year old alcoholic living with my girlfriend in her apartment and I am destroying her life?
Because you are an active alcoholic, and when you're down, misery loves company. So you inject your downfalls onto her. She may seem the perfect person to you, but inside she isn't. ( Example: Tolerating your behavior). Your best bet is to attend AA meetings and get a sponsor, you have already admitted to being an alcoholic, that is part of the first step.
The first thing I would change is lay off of the drinking. As for the rest of the way you seem to treat other folks, I would say some counseling is in order and I say it in the most sincere way. You are going down a destructive path my friend. Thanks for sharing.
pray for guidance from your lord, stop drinking and repent, for God
loves those who repent and he loves those who purify themselves.
may God guide you.
You are obviously impersonating somebody who you don't like, and using YA as a forum to defame this person's character. THIS Q SHOULD BE REMOVED.
I think you may need to be evaluated by a psychiatrist, because something isn't quite right. And as far as the alcohol goes, if this problem persists the answer may be rehab.
What is wrong with you is your an alcoholic that has no responsibilities. You need to get help for the alcoholism as soon as possible.
You need some help ASAP. You should see if you could get some mental help. You need to be committed to a mental health facility. Contact your local mental health organization for help today.
Simple answer-you're living in sin; separate from each other. I'm sure you are not ready for marriage. When you are, then you can live together.
You're horrible.
Let her read this question you just posted, send a copy to her parents, and your dilemma will be over. I promise.
Duh! You are a drunk and a wanker. What more can I say. Do the decent thing and leave her so she can have a better life.
Get out of her life. Get out of everyone's life until you get one of your own.
You could use some good Christian counseling and AA. If you love her, you'd get help!
Put the plug in the Jug.
Go hang in the Hood and you will find true love.
learn to say ';NO'; to alcohol....good luck
You need help.
God Bless you and Enlighten you
Why yes you are...
you answered yourself what is wrong with you.
alcohol which feeding your bad temper. if it goes on like this, you may be alone at the end.
instead of being passive, get rid of alcohol.
if i see the picture, you have in your hands, for now, everything for happiness , a good and sweet person who seems to care for you.
yet, due to your ego and passiveness you are taking pleasure to destroy her , because you think it can cool you down or be a possible revenge to calm you rage.
you can as well CHOOSE to have a beautiful life with her, if it is meant to be.
how would it be to share your good hopes with her? and may be give thanks as well?
if her spirit may be broken to the point of crying and asking for pointless forgiveness as you put it (for me it is never pointless because for her it is meaningful, she is being true to herself), imagine how enlightened and happy her spirit would be if you show a bit more honesty and sincerity and care in your dealing with her.
though you may call her spoilt, she has enough good side to be sensitive and ask for forgiveness to you.
just one day ago, i have been told that people would respect me more if i stop keep asking forgiveness (in this pointless manner as you put it).
so i wondered , is it so?
don't consider her idiot for her naive kindness
there will come one day it will end,
so just be grateful.
someone told me bad habits are hard to break
and good habits take time in being set and it is a burden.
once set, no more burden.
what you should do :
be honest and strong man.
give up alcohol
build yourself / your character to start with
be worthy / noble
Well you are addicted, that is the problem. It is like a person who eats too much and can not loose weight. They are addicted. I was addicted to alcohol 5 years ago and I just quit. I decided one day that I did not want to live this way anymore and I just quit. It was not easy but I did it. The same has to happen with you. You have to decide you do not want to live this way anymore and change. It will not be easy but you can do it. The first 30 days will be the hardest part. If you can stay sober for 30 days, you can kick your addiction. After 3 years of Sobriety for me I was finally able to drink an alcoholic drink and not go crazy and get drunk.
your young dumb and an alcoholic.... and you don't know the importance of paragraphs.... im sure there is a local alcoholics anonymous in your area, do yourself a favour and google them, get in touch with some support for your drinking problem.
before it not only breaks her heart, but wrecks your life also... times too precious
Shecklin Scott-
You are odvisly abusing achole here is some steps to stop.
You can take steps today to stop drinking. Your first step might be to see your doctor, contact a support group, or set a date in the near future to stop. While some people can stop drinking on their own, others need medical help to manage the physical process of withdrawal.
If you think you have an addiction to alcohol, talk to your doctor about whether you need to withdraw from alcohol under medical supervision. Your doctor can give you medicine that will help you safely withdraw from alcohol. Other medicines might be prescribed later to help you stay sober. With a doctor's help, withdrawal from alcohol is safer.
If you continue to abuse alcohol, it can lead to alcohol dependence. Alcohol dependence is also called alcoholism. You are physically or mentally addicted to alcohol. You have a strong need, or craving, to drink. You feel like you must drink just to get by.
You might be dependent on alcohol if you have three or more of the following problems in a year:
You cannot quit drinking or control how much you drink.
You need to drink more to get the same effect.
You have withdrawal symptoms when you stop drinking. These include feeling sick to your stomach, sweating, shakiness, and anxiety.
You spend a lot of time drinking and recovering from drinking, or you have given up other activities so you can drink.
You have tried to quit drinking or to cut back the amount you drink but haven't been able to.
You continue to drink even though it harms your relationships and causes you to develop physical problems.
Alcoholism is a long-term (chronic) disease. It's not a weakness or a lack of willpower. Like many other diseases, it has a course that can be predicted, has known symptoms, and is influenced by your genes and your life situation.
Good luck-
You need to close the doors to satan and open them to our Lord. Did you know human beings can be possessed by demons? Go to my profile and under ';my questions'; read the experience I had with demons.
If you are demon possessed, then you're in big trouble. If you are possessed, you would really need to leave that girl alone because if you don't, you may ruin your life and her life if you stay there. Why? because you drink alcohol.
Leave her alone for a while and close the doors to satan and open them to our Lord.
To Him who sits on the throne and to the Lamb be praise and honor and glory for ever and ever. Jesus Christ is Lord.
Yes there is really something wrong and bothering you. And I think you know yourself you're old to know what's wrong and right. If you have conscience and you feel pity of your girlfriend then stop making her miserable she understands you well that's why she doesn't want to break with you and you should understand and be sensitive to her feelings too. You too should be united as one and love each other. So in order not to upset your girlfriend you should stop your drinking vices it doesn't make you any good try to change and transform yourself for your own good. Be kind and understanding to her. You know what you're doing be in the good side be flexible and don't take advantage of her. Limit your alcoholism it harms your health and your future. Think God and have fear of him and try reading the Bible. I hope it will enlighten you.
Get help-I bet your bi-polar-(That means your are mentally messed up in a retarded kind of way.) She will hate you eventually for abusing her-I mean how long do you think this relationship will last -especially is her family hates you? Get out of her pad! Get a life you loser. There are soo many men that would love to take your place -One will eventually for the best. She is worth more than you-Retard!
Well Shecklin Scott the answer is simple...one thing is try to get help for your drinking regulate it or just kick the habit totally your a young a$$ boy 45 year old alcholics do it so you definitely can that shouldn't be hard to do....the last and most important thing is STOP being a C*NT and stop using the drinking as an excuse for your immature,spoilt brat,dumba$$ behaviour cause you WILL lose your gf and soon too!
Remove yourself from everyone's life until you get your crap together. No one should have to deal with that behavior and in the long run, you will only leave behind a trail of enemies. Stop being selfish and start contributing to people's lives instead of taking.
If you cannot be the boyfriend/man you need to be for these people, it is best to remove yourself until you can.
Hi Shecklin, you've done well to admit this.... you know what you're doing to Marissa and you know it is wrong... but that wont help unless you actually do something about it. you know you became like this when you started drinking, so you must know that to change, you must stop drinking. you are being abusive to your girlfriend..
that is unacceptable.
as your girlfriend seems to love you to distraction, and is not going to tell you to put your life in order,
you must do it yourself, unless you want to cause her untold pain.
you are being selfish
you are being spiteful
you are being unfair
you are being a bully
you are being a sponge
you are hurting Marissa
leave the apartment and go to a clinic and get some help.
if you don't, its not just Marissa's life you are ruining, it is yours, and so many other peoples too. stop feeling sorry for yourself... you've been doing wrong, stop it
and do right.
if you need help
ask God to help you
surprisingly, He will.x
Very simple solution. Get to a meeting, get there fast, and get help immediately. Your girlfriend is a codependent and an enabler. She needs to get help, too.
If you don't get help (and I don't mean maybe tomorrow, or maybe next week, or maybe I can do this on my own) RIGHT NOW, your relationship is doomed and your life is doomed.
You have a disease. It's called addiction. If you don't get treatment for it, just like you would for any other disease, it will kill you. No doubt about it. That's a lousy break but it is the way it is. Choose to get better or choose to get worse. It's your decision.
Best of luck.
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